Forget Paris

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Background: 1995 American romantic comedy movie

Director: Billy Crystal

What do you think about love? What would you do for the one you love?

 Love is an abstract feelings that connect to each other. Each person has his or her own understanding towards "LOVE". Love is the key to start maintain a relationship, to build a family, and to accompany each other in the rest of our life. 

There are a huge difference between love and like. Love means you truly accept and feel attractive after knew about their imperfections and flaws; yet, like is just because he or she has some characteristic or physical appearance that attracted you to approach them. 

Love is long term and selfless. It gives you courageous to conquer every difficulties and hard time with your partner. Love is about loyal and commitment; however, the person we loved is also the one who hurt us the most. This is because we opened up our self-defense and get close to them, we show our weakness and flaws to them because we trust them and believe that they will accept all of our imperfections and will not leave us. Once we are betrayed by the love one , we feel hurt and it is pain instead.  

                                     

Nowadays, most of the people are very open minded. They are no longer think that getting a partner and marriage is a MUST in their stage of life. I agree with that. As long as you feel happy and satisfied with your current status and clearly know that what you want and who you want in your life and it will be alright. Teenagers or some of the people who urge to get in marriage without having discussion about each other future plan might have some problem afterwards and we should not rush ourselves to get in a relationship. In addition, for those immature people always hold to their past and it is difficult to move on and continue to their relationship. Just like the topic of this movie, "forget Paris". Both main characters met each other at Paris. For them, the week they spent in Paris was the sweetest and memorable moment in their life. If they keep on holding to the memories and tried to apply it every moment, your partner will be stressed and tired to this relationship because what past is past and no one can change for it. Like example, Mary's boyfriend used to talk sweet words to her but a year later Mary found that her boyfriend are not longer talk sweet words to her and complaint that her boyfriend are not good enough. What I want to say is Mary's boyfriend had being mature enough and he protects Mary in another way. This doesn't mean that Mary's boyfriend are not longer in love with her anymore. Through our maturity state, everyone have different mindset about love and that does not mean your partner had change. 

Trailer of Forget Paris